Coconut Milk

1 cup coconut milk, 1½ T chopped cacao butter, ½ cup raw honey, 1 T brewed coffee or espresso, 1

2 t coconut oil, 1 head garlic, minced, 1 2, 1¾ pounds cauliflower, cut into florets (1 large

3 pound butternut squash, 4 cloves garlic, divided, 1 bunch cilantro, cleaned and big stems